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WHY GIRLS ARE QUEENS OF THE PORKIE
PSYCHOLOGIST Dr Jez Rose says: "Many women are past masters at lying.
"They make successful fibbers because they are naturally gregarious, making lots of physical gestures which are the classic way of masking lies.
"As a matter of course, they tend to wave their hands around while they speak and talk rapidly, diverting the listener from what they're actually saying. This makes it easy for them to slip in untruths. Men, by comparison, are useless.
"They aren't as sociable or as good at personal interaction. When they try to mask their lies using the same methods as women, it seems false - and they get found out.
"Statistics show that women are just as likely to cheat on their partners as men - a fact which shocks many people. They think that more men are unfaithful, but that's only because they are worse at lying and are exposed more often.
"Women are far more devious because they are better at planning ahead and have readily prepared excuses in their head in case they're challenged.
"But men only think of the here and now. When they have to explain themselves they often get flustered and blow their cover."
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In a new survey, 96 per cent of females questioned admitted that they lie regularly.
These fibs vary from little white lies - telling a fat friend she looks great squashed into her too-tight miniskirt - to far more serious deceptions, such as hiding the true paternity of a child.
Fortunately there are ways and means to spot a fibber.
Psychologist Dr Jez Rose says" "When people lie, tiny subconscious clues give them away. If you know what to look for, you need never be lied to again."
These 20 tell-tale signs reveal if someone's telling porkies...
FACE TOUCHING
LIARS may obscure or touch their face in an attempt to "cover up" their lie. This varies from person to person but can include scratching their nose, hiding their mouth with their hand - often covering the upper lip with a forefinger - or scratching their cheek or ear.
FALSE SMILE
A NATURAL smile is fast and symmetrical. Watch someone when you make them laugh - they smile almost instantly and there is no reservation. However, a fake smile is slower and often appears lopsided.
Also look in a person's eyes when they smile. It's not just our lips that move but the orbicularis oculi - the muscle around the eye that gives us crow's feet, or laughter lines.
A liar's false smile starts and ends with their mouth - the total lack of expression in their eyes can be a dead giveaway.
EYE MOVEMENTS
THE old saying "your eyes are the window to your soul" couldn't be more appropriate.
The movement of the eyes - pupil dilation and rapid eye movement - are one of the few reactions in your body that you can't control.
Liars often look away at the moment of untruth, or blink more frequently as their brains concentrate at the task in hand.
They are unable to maintain eye contact and will look uneasy or shifty.
DIRECTION OF GAZE
LIARS tend to glance repeatedly at the door of a room - their feet will often point to the door, too - or away from you. Subconsciously, they want to get out of the lie and thus the room.
HESITATION
WHEN someone is lying they think more about keeping the details consistent. They may slow down their speech and become more hesitant, choosing their words and phrases more precisely to mentally rehearse their answer in case they slip up.
FOOT TAPPING
THE deceiver will be anxious to deliver their lie as quickly as possible and may betray their impatience by unconsciously tapping their foot or swinging it to and fro as they sit on a chair.
CROSSING ARMS AND LEGS
THESE are classic signs of the protective instinct. They indicate that the person is feeling defensive - worried what might happen if the lie they are telling was uncovered.
FACIAL TWITCHES
EVEN the most accomplished liar can't prevent their true feelings showing because some of the muscles involved in facial expressions are not under our conscious control. A random twitch or nervous tic is likely to be a flicker of guilt - even if it appears for a fraction of a second.
GOING RED
A PERSON'S heart rate is likely to increase as they anticipate telling a lie. Blood rushes to the capillaries and, when the heat is on, their skin may appear red and flushed.
MICRO EXPRESSIONS
BRIEF facial expressions can reveal a liar. Say, for example, you have some shocking news and the person you are telling doesn't want you to know they have already heard it.
Their honest reaction would be to raise their eyebrows and let their mouth drop open in a classic expression of surprise.
But if they immediately change their expression back to what it was before, it suggests they are deceiving you by hiding their true feelings.
DIGRESSING
IN the desperate hope that their victim won't pick up on their lie, the deceiver may waffle around the subject, giving lots of unnecessary detail.
Their sentences may be peppered with time-stalling expressions such as "er", "like" and "basically" - words which mean nothing.
CHANGING THE SUBJECT
IF you ask a liar a direct question they might not have a plausible answer ready. To play for time, they may divert the conversation elsewhere - often using flattery. So while you are temporarily distracted by hearing how nice your hair looks today, the liar will be concocting their deceit.
FIDGETING
LIARS may finger their earlobes, crack their knuckles, fiddle with a ring or sweep back their hair - it's almost as if they need to galvanise themselves physically before misleading you.
CONFLICTING SIGNS
A MAJOR clue lies in the contrast between what the person says and their body language, which indicates what they really feel. For instance, if they say they are happy while shaking their head slightly, there's a chance they are not being entirely honest.
CHANGE OF PITCH
INCONSISTENCIES in the pitch or tone of the liar's voice may mirror inconsistencies in their story. If their voice suddenly becomes higher, louder or more urgent, they may be about to deliver the lie.
TALKING FASTER
VOICES tend to speed up when people tell a lie, in an attempt to get it over with quicker.
SWEATING
WATCH for beads of perspiration on their brow or sweat patches under their arms. Liars often give themselves away by becoming hot and uncomfortable as their adrenalin pumps faster.
GULPING
AS they panic, fearing that their lie might be spotted, their chest may tighten and the airways become restricted. Anxiety can cause shallow breathing and they will gulp air to compensate for the lack of oxygen getting to their lungs. Men might loosen their tie or pull on their collar to ease this problem.
WETTING THE LIPS
A DRY mouth is another symptom of anxiety. The liar may swallow repeatedly to generate saliva and lick their lips.
OVERSTATED FRIENDLINESS
THE liar wants you to believe what's being said and will make every effort to win you over.
They may come across as inappropriately jolly or overly familiar, perhaps dropping your name in at the end of the sentence to fake intimacy.
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