Shqiperia qe shihet nga maja e minares

[Brari]

KJ shkruan:


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E Shtune, 28 Qershor 2003


SHQIPERIA QE SHIHET NGA MAJA E MINARES

Nga Mentor Kikia

Ne vitet '90, kur Shqiperia nuk ishte me nje vend i mbyllur dhe gazetaret e huaj mund te shuanin kureshtjen me vendin e shqiponjave, ne televizionet e shume vendeve perendimore u shfaqen telereportazhet e para. Cuditerisht, detaji qe terhiqte me shume vemendjen e objektivit te kamerave ishin minaret e xhamive qe filluan te mbinin fshatrave e qyteteve shqiptare. Dhe padyshim qe ne sfond jehonte kenga e hoxhes.

Skena perseritet ne menyre korrekte ne Kosove. Para fillimit te luftes, ne ate kohe kur intervistimi i nje komandanti te UCK-se ishte scoop, por edhe pas saj, ishin serish minaret e xhamive qe shoqeronin cdo reportazh televiziv te gazetareve perendimore. Madje, ne kohen kur Kosova u shnderrua ne nje "Irak" qe po seleksiononte pro dhe antiamerikanet per shkak te planeve per sulme ushtarake, mediat perendimore, me ane te minareve, u bene aleate te politikes me te felliqur per ceshtjen e Kosoves. Permes minareve, ata u tregonin jo muslimaneve ne Perendim se lufta ne Kosove, mes popullsise shqiptare muslimane dhe serbeve ortodokse, ishte nje lufte fetare dhe jo lufte per liri. Kjo do te justifikonte thashethemet per ekzistencen e muxhahedineve ne radhet e UCK-se e te tjera pallavra si keto. Dhe pas luftes, nje gazetar italian qe viziton Prishtinen, quante zbulim te madh faktin se atje kishte klube nate dhe pub-e.

Kjo tashme eshte nje gje e shkuar, por i solla ne kujtese keto, pasi jo me larg se data 26 qershor, gazeta britanike "The Times" botonte nje artikull jo te shkurter mbi Shqiperine, te shkruar nga korrespondenti i saj ne Budapest, Adam Lebor. Duke marre shkas nga nje emision me keshilla seksuale ne nje television lokal ne Tirane, korrespondenti shkruante per thyerjen e tabuve seksuale ne nje vend patriarkal dhe me tradita konservatore. Deri ketu konstatimi eshte deri diku normal, por gazetari nuk vonon te perserise se ky patriarkalizem buron nga fakti se Shqiperia eshte i vetmi vend ne Evrope me shumicen e popullsise myslimane. Edhe kjo eshte nje e vertete. Shqiptaret jane ne shumice myslimane dhe per kete nuk duhet te jemi as te turperuar e as krenare. Por, kur gazetari nis te komentoje se cfare do te thote kjo, bie ne sy tendenca se perse ai i meshon idese myslimane. Sipas tij, popujt e Maqedonise, Serbise dhe Malit te Zi, duke qene ortodokse, jane pa paragjykime dhe me te zhvilluar seksualisht. Dhe, padyshim edhe me te kulturuar. Mazhoranca muslimane e popullsise ne Shqiperi permendet ne cdo paragraf te shkrimit, sikur ky te ishte nje zbulim i rralle. Te jesh musliman nuk eshte turp, aq me shume ne Shqiperi ku feja eshte vetem nje relike dhe pakkush do t'ia dije se ciles fe i perket. Dhe kjo harmoni, cuditerisht, nuk i ben pershtypje asnje udhetari te mediave te huaja. Te gjithe ferkojne duart te shkruajne se vetem nja 80 kilometra larg Italise, jeton nje popullsi myslimane, si ata te "tmerrshmit" ne Lndjen e Mesme. Korrespondenti i "The Times" shkon deri aty sa ne fund te shkrimit arrin ne perfundimin se emisioni i "Dr. Seksit" ne nje televizion lagjeje ne Tirane, e ka civilizuar jo pak popullsine myslimane shqiptare dhe per kete qellim "analistet - qe nuk jane gje tjeter vec mendja e vete gazetarit - mendojne se kjo metode duhet te transferohet ne vende te tjera konservatore islamike, si psh ne Lindjen e Mesme". Budallallek me te madh dhe gje me te turpshme nuk mund te shkruash per Shqiperine. Perpos idiotesive qe pershkojne fund e krye artikullin, shikon edhe nje tendence, e cila, ne fakt, vetem tejcohet ne vite: Shqiperia myslimane. Ne nje vend ku perkatesia fetare eshte gjeja qe u intereson me pak njerezve, cuditerisht kjo eshte gjeja qe terheq me shume te huajt. Mjere redaktoret qe shperblejne reportere, qe kane fotografuar nje grua shqiptare qe punon ne are duke mbajtur nje shami ne koke.


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Dy fjale..

Shume bukur shkruan Mentari i Kohes tone por te mos harroje se gazetari huaj ka kullotur ne malin me bajga qe KOHA JONE ngriti ne kohen e Berishes duke mobilizuar krejt industrine shpifese te PPSH-se dhe te sorrollopit kinse djathtist per te nxire Shqiperine.

E sot mbasi mbollen vete Opinionin se "Shqiperia ishte ose u be fondamentaliste, Bajraktariste e diktatoriste prej Berishes " shqetsohen tash se pse dhe sot ne kohen Nano -Mejdaniste-Lino-Limprehtiste e -Les-iste-Cup-iste vazhdon te pikoje i njejti uj i qelbur.

Vet e mbollet mo KOHA JONE ate kak-a m-ut e tash hiqeni ne mujshi.


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[krokodili_73]

Ky eshte artikulli ne times, edhe ti brari mos bej politike me gjera kot se ska kuptim, po qe per politike, ai zhgaba jot shkoj dhe u be synet ne brunei apo jo, leqe na solli dhe ontelektualet e arabise saudite me na meshtjell me carcaf.

artikulli:



How Dr Sex counsels Albania Muslims
From Adam Lebor in Budapest
A JOLLY grey-haired grandfather who dispenses frank advice about sex is Albania’s unlikeliest celebrity.

Dr Adem Harxhi hosts the country’s first television show dedicated to open discussion of intimate etiquette, and is now a cult figure.

In Sex and Sexuality, his hour-long programme every Thursday on the private channel Gjeli Vision, Dr Harxhi breaks long-standing taboos about discussions of sexual matters in the mainly-Muslim Balkan country.

Callers ring in anonymously to ask about everything from orgasms to oral sex.

Dr Harxhi, 65, originally trained as an eye doctor, but found that his patients were more concerned about discussing their intimate lives.

He lived in the United States for several years before returning to Tirana.

Albanian society is still very traditional and conservative, in part a legacy of its heritage as Europe’s only Muslim-majority country. However, Dr Harxhi’s grandfatherly image, and patriarchal demeanour allows him to discuss topics previously considered closed, sometimes in a surprisingly frank manner.

The most frequent obstacle to sexual fulfilment, he says, is anxiety.

Many Albanians are too frightened to experiment with ways to improve their sex lives. There is little sex education in schools.

One hapless caller telephoned Dr Harxhi to confess that he was too shy even to make love to his wife.

The caller was a miner, which prompted a rare sarcastic remark. “How could this happen to you? You use your drill deep inside rocks and mountains, but you can’t drill your wife? Are you a miner or what?”

Under the former Communist regime, Albania was the most isolated country in Europe.

Enver Hoxha, the Stalinist dictator, promoted a North Korean-style personality cult, banning beards, private cars and kissing on television.

Censorship is no more, but the easy availability of satellite and cable foreign television stations, and the globalisation of commercial culture, with ready portrayals of semi-nudity and sexuality, clash with Albania’s traditionally conservative mores, in contrast with its more sexually liberal neighbours, Serbia, Montenegro and Macedonia.

Sex and Sexuality is especially popular with the younger generation, who are more exposed to foreign films and advertising.

Alma Cupi, an Albanian journalist and correspondent for the IWPR website. said: “Dr Sex meets a need here. You can’t imagine how many young people phone him to ask for advice about everything. People don’t know much about sex education.

“People here cannot speak openly about sexual matters. This kind of discussion usually takes place in all-male or all-female groups. Many parents will not speak about sexual matters with their children because they are too ashamed.

“If they see a film with a couple kissing or making love, they will turn off the television.”

Analysts believe that Dr Sex’s formula could transfer to more conservative Islamic countries, such as in the Middle East.

John Nadler, a correspondent for Variety newspaper, said: “He is a grey-haired avuncular figure, who commands respect in a patriarchal society, and that’s why he can communicate with such frankness about these matters.”

Dr Harxhi is a local celebrity, greeted on the streets of Tirana by his viewers. But not everyone welcomes his open discussions. Callers to the show occasionally become abusive. But nothing disturbs Dr Sex. “Tune your television set to a different channel if you don’t like me,” he tells viewers. “And make love as much as possible, so that you can relax, rid yourself of stress and regenerate.”

The top five questions for Dr Sex

Question: Is it OK to masturbate?

Answer: Yes, of course, it relieves stress and makes you feel better

Question: Can I prevent my wife getting pregnant if I use a condom?

Answer: Yes

Question: Is it OK to make love in another position, not in the standard position?

Answer: Yes, all sex is wonderful and good

Question: I am 15 and I have a boyfriend. I am not sure if I should have sex or not

Answer: No, you are too young and there is a danger of infection or pregnancy

Question: I am too embarrassed to see my doctor, where should I go to for treatment for a venereal disease?

Answer: Your doctor, or a clinic


tani kush do me i shkrujt ktij fuckerit, ky eshte email-i:

letters@thetimes.co.uk

hajde penat e forumit, tregojeni veten

[krokodili_73]

Ja dhe pergjigja ime si zemer e kuqe qe jam:


Dear Sir

First of all I am an Albanian and not a very happy one regarding the above article.
It tells exaggerated lies regarding what Albanians are. As far as sex education is concerned, I do not think that there is a big difference between Albania, her neighbours and rest of Europe. My female classmates and I have been to school and sex education classes. I have never had a problem discussing it with any one, so my friends whom I have grown up with. I do not understand where is the big deal about sexual taboos in Albania or whatever.

The above person has never been to Albania I suppose. It is true that by your statistics, Albania is a Muslim country, but religion is a rudimental thing there, has never been taken seriously, and doesn’t apply to us. As a matter of fact, I am more frightened by Muslims of Britain rather that the so-called Albanian Moslems, when it comes to, you know, going to Heaven with fifty virgins.

Dear Sir, Muslim religion was forced upon us by Ottomans, however we have never ever been converted to true Islam followers. We have remained Europeans, like it or not. If you like, just go and have a holiday there, or at least ask someone that has been in the country and you'll realise what a joke this article is. You should stop your nuisance about us.

As a matter of fact, iI shouldn't be bothered about this stupid thing, however I do believe that this and so many other lies in centuries, has caused so much trouble for my nation. If you don’t mind me to remind you that it was you country and your cheese-eating, Mughabe-adoring neighbours that sanctioned the brake up of Albanian nation after Ottoman Empire fell. You gave half of Albanian population, I am talking Kosova now, to Serbs on religious bases, so they would take care of them. It was needed one hundred year of pain, murder, blood baths, and ethnic cleansing for kosova to get free from that monstrous nation. And why all that, just for fun of being so-call Muslim in Europe.

Even today, Albanians are considered second hand citizens from you, even worse then the martyrdom dreaming ethnic minorities in your place. I am pretty sure that lies like the above one are much to blame as well. We are no different from you sir, in all aspects, just poorer and it doesn’t justify this attitude.

Therefore, for the above reasons, please stop telling lies about us, and if you are really concerned about sexual health of Muslim population per se, give ‘doctor sex’ a visa, so he can come and educate some of your Muslims in Bradford or all around Britain, where females are still sold and bought according to the best tradition that the ethnic minorities in Britain can offer in true value. And considering that the ethnic minorities in Britain are the fastest growing population, you would like the future of England to grow up healthy, wouldn’t you sir.


Sincerely yours


Albanian Crusader

ta dhe ju keshillol qe nese e ndieni apo jeni te fyer nga ky artikull, ti coni sa me shumeemaile ktij fuckerit, pasi nese se dini, po jua them se the time eshte gazeta e Her majesty, the Queen, so e merrni vesh qe jane pak a shume linja zurtare.
Ta
Krokodili i inatosur

[Orku]

Kjo pergjigja qe i ke cuar ti perjashto pjesen qe lidhet me Kosoven..... eshte pak kontradiktore ....sepse ne thelbin e saj qendron motivi "Mos me shaj se jam si ty" .... dmth je si ai qe te shan.

Nuk e kuptoj perse lodheshe kaq shume t'i flisje per minoritetet myslimane te Anglise kur fare bukur mund t'i flisje per prostitutat, gay-t, pedofilet, etc etc qe ne vetvete jane veset e verteta te asaj shoqerie.

Une nuk kam per qellim te te ofendoj por mendoj se ti je njeri me komplekse .... sepse nese ke dashur t'i thuash qe je europian nuk e ke pasur aspak te nevojshme te heqesh paralele mes vetes dhe atij apo te justifikosh ardhjen e Islamit ne Shqiperi.
Mjafton ti thoje se historia e vendit tend ne Europe fillon ca 2000 vjet para se tijes.

Ajo qe me duket serish e papranueshme eshte perkufizimi qe i ben fese si dicka e parendesishme per shqiptaret .... dhe qe mua me duket si nje deshire per te fshehur dicka qe te tjeret mbase nuk na e pelqejne te qenurit Myslimane. Nese te tjeret nuk e pelqejne kete FAKT, zgjidhja nuk qendron ne minimizimin e tij por ne luften ndaj paragjykimit !

Se fundi bashkohem me mendimin e Brarit plotesisht. Ish-shefi i sherbimeve sekrete shqiptare fatos klosi ne 98 deklaronte se Shqiperia ishte parajse e fondamentalizmit Islamik. Mendon valle se je burim me i besueshem informacioni per Times-in se i lartpermenduri ???