Nocioni për jetën dhe vetvrasja

[Mina]

Vetvrasja nuk eshte zgjidhje, ose eshte zgjidhja fatale!
Jeta duhet mberthyer me thonj dhe duhet jetuar. Te gjithe jemi te denje te jetojme sepse Perendia na e fali kete privilegj. Mund te kete renie por ka edhe ngritje. Kur te shkosh ne fund atehere duhet te kercesh mbi veten. Kujtoni per nje moment lutjet e atyre qe jane ne gryke te varrit; Sa deshire kane te jetojne.

[useid]

TI MINA BEN VETVRASJE SHPIRTERORE SIC THOTE PARAFOLESI APO JO.

[kolombi]

Vetvrasja eshte dobesia shpirterore e ature njerezve,qe ne momentet me te veshtira dhe dramatike te jetes,nuk kishin kurajo force dhe guxim te dilnini nga erresirra e tunelit ku ishin futur e ti buzeqeshnin serish JETES.

[MI CORAZON]

Me poshte nje liste te njerezve te shquar qe kane kryer vetevrasje:

Johnny Ace, singer
Nick Adams, actor
Neil Aggett, South African worker's union leader
Louis Althusser, French philosopher
Jean Améry, Austrian writer
Fridolin Anderwert, Swiss Federal Councilor
Roger Nicholas Angleton, imprisoned Texas extortionist who admitted in his suicide note killing his sister-in-law, socialite Doris Angleton.
Mary Bacon, thoroughbred race horse jockey
Albert Ballen
Isobel Barnett, British TV personality
Gertrude Bell, archaeologist, writer, spy and administrator known as the "Uncrowned Queen of Iraq"
Alain Berdarin, founder/owner of "Le Crazy Horse Saloon" - Paris
Pierre Bérégovoy, French politician, killed himself in 1993 after serving a year as prime minister.
Ricky Berry, American NBA Basketball player (Sacramento Kings)
Bruno Bettelheim, child psychologist
Ludwig Boltzmann, Austrian physicist
Ernest Bornemann, German sexologist
Francesco Borromini, architect
***** Boye, Swedish author
Charles Boyer, French actor
Herman Brood, Dutch musician and painter
Eustace Budgel, remembered because his death was discussed in a conversation between Samuel Johnson and his friend and biographer Boswell
Capucine, French actress
Dora Carrington, artist
Robert Stewart, Viscount Castlereagh, British politician
Paul Celan, Romanian poet
Valerie Chacon, wife of Bobby Chacon
Thomas Chatterton, English poet
Leslie Cheung, Hong Kong movie star and singer
Chung Mong-hun, Korean businessman, chairman of Hyundai Asan
Kurt Donald Cobain, American musician and singer (Nirvana)
Billy Collins Jr., young boxer
Ray Combs, former host of popular American game show Family Feud
Ian Curtis, English singer and songwritter (Joy Division)
Dalida, French singer
Gilles Deleuze, French philosopher
Peter Deuel, American actor
George Eastman, inventor
Brian Samuel Epstein, British manager of the The Beatles
Patrick William Feeney, American college basketball player
John Gould Fletcher, Pulitzer Prize winning poet
Romain Gary, Russian - French novelist, film director and diplomat
Charlotte Perkins Gilman, American feminist and author (Herland)
Joseph Goebbels, German Nazi leader
Hermann Göring, German Nazi leader
Richard Greene, boxing referee
Mitch Halpern, boxing referee
Pete Ham, rock musician (Badfinger)
Tony Hancock British comedian.
Hannibal, military commander
Donny Hathaway, singer, best known for his duets with Roberta Flack
Felix Hausdorff, mathematician. He committed suicide with his wife and sister-in-law in the concentration camp.
Ernest Hemingway, American novelist
Margaux Hemingway, American actress and model
Adolf Hitler, Austrian/German Nazi leader
Michael Hutchence Australian lead singer of rock group INXS
Phyllis Hyman Singer
Judas Iscariot, according to the Bible, betrayed Jesus
Jim Jones, reverend, leader of the "People's Temple" cult. Died during mass suicide that cost the lives of more than 500 in Guyana.
Sarah Kane, British playwright
Terry Kath, guitarist, Chicago (died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound)
Brian Keith, American actor (Family Affair)
Dr. David Kelly, British scientist and source of BBC story about the Dodgy Dossier
Heinrich von Kleist, German dramatist and poet
Arthur Koestler, Hungarian novelist, political activist and social philosopher
Hannelore Kohl, wife of ex-chancellor of Germany Helmut Kohl
Jerzy Kosinski, Polish-American author
Paul Lafargue, son-in-law of Karl Marx, communist theorist and author of The Right to Be Lazy
Hans Langsdorff, captain of the Admiral Graf Spee
Hector Lavoe, Salsa Music singer
Florence Lawrence, Hollywood's first movie Star
Primo Levi, Italian author
John Lovelock, New Zealand doctor and Olympic athlete
Malcolm Lowry, British writer
Gherashim Luca, Romanian surrealist
Aleksandr Mikhailovich Lyapunov, Russian mathematician, mechanician and physicist
Billy MacKenzie Lead singer of 1980s pop group The Associates
Niklaus Meienberg, Swiss author
Kitty Melrose, English actress
Charlotte Mew, English poet
Kid McCoy, world champion boxer (real name: Norman Shelby. Suicide note read, among other things: Everything in my possession, I want to go to my dear wife, Sue E. Shelby.....To all my dear friends...best of luck...sorry I could not endure this world's madness.)
Donnie Moore, relief pitcher for the California Angels, gave up a last inning home-run preventing the Angels from going to the World Series in 1986.
Ted Moult, British television personality
Gerard de Nerval, French writer
Luis Ocaña, Spanish cyclist, Tour de France winner
Phil Ochs, American singer
Judge O'Connor, actor
Dazai Osamu, Japanese novelist
Billy Papke, world champion boxer
Jules Pascin, French-American painter, "Prince of Montparnasse"
Sylvia Plath, American poetess, author and essayist
Dana Michelle Plato, American actress
Freddie Prinze, Puerto Rican comedian and actor
George Reeves, actor, played Superman on television
Carlos Roberto Reina, former president of Honduras
Iris von Roten-Meyer, (1917-1990), artist and jurist
Irv Rubin, leader of the Jewish Defense League
Mark Rothko, Russian-American painter
Crown Prince Rudolf of Austria (see Mayerling)
Akutagawa Ryunosuke, Japanese novelist
George Sanders, actor. His suicide note read: "Dear World: I am leaving because I am bored. I am leaving you with your worries in this sweet cesspool."
Alberto Santos-Dumont, pilot
Jean Seberg, American actress
Anne Sexton, American poet
Del Shannon, American singer
Elizabeth Siddal, Pre-Raphaelite icon
The Singing Nun, Belgian singer
Rory Storm, singer of the Hurricanes (the band Ringo Starr was in before he joined the Beatles), in a pact with his mother
David Strickland, Actor
Wolfe Tone, Irish independence leader
John Kennedy Toole, American novelist
Marina Ivanovna Tsvetaeva, Russian poetess and writer
Kurt Tucholsky, German journalist and satirist
Alan Turing, British mathematician and computer scientist
Randy Turpin, British world champion boxer
Vincent van Gogh, Dutch painter
Getulio Vargas, president of Brazil. Killed himself in 1954 during impeachment trial.
Lupe Velez, actress
Herve Villechaize, French actor
Otto Weininger, Austrian philosopher
James Whale, film director
Paul Williams, singer (Temptations)
Virginia Woolf, British novelist
Mahmoud Zuabi, Syrian prime minister shot himself on May 21, 2000, two months after resigning over corruption charges.
Stefan and Lotte Zweig, Austrian novelist and his wife

Monarchs
Shang Zhou, the last king of the Shang Dynasty of China
Boudicca, Celtic chieftainess
Decebal, Dacian king
Cleopatra VII of Egypt
Chongzhen, the last emperor of the Ming Dyansty of China
Nero, emperor of Rome (under duress)

By Harakiri
Oda Nobunaga
the Soga
Akou-Roushi (47 ronins)
Saigo Takamori, Japanese politician
Hashimoto Sanaii
Yoshida Shouin
Kusaka Gennai
Takechi Hanpeita
Kimitake Hiraoka better known as Yukio Mishima

Others
Sarah Marple-Cantrell 12 year old girl who became famous after commiting suicide.

[leci]

Vetvrasja eshte dobesia shpirterore e ature njerezve,qe ne momentet me te veshtira dhe dramatike te jetes,nuk kishin kurajo force dhe guxim te dilnini nga erresirra e tunelit ku ishin futur e ti buzeqeshnin serish JETES.

sekreti i te vertetes qendron te thjeshtesia e fjaleve

[MI CORAZON]

Postuar më parë nga leci
Vetvrasja eshte dobesia shpirterore e ature njerezve,qe ne momentet me te veshtira dhe dramatike te jetes,nuk kishin kurajo force dhe guxim te dilnini nga erresirra e tunelit ku ishin futur e ti buzeqeshnin serish JETES.

Kurajo dhe force !
Ku e kane burimin ?

[leci]

do me falesh corazon por ato ishin fjalet e kolombit.
nejse....mund te pergjigjem.
kurajo dhe forca ku e kane burimin?
ne familje,ne dashuri,besimin ne diçka,nje shok i mire etj.
jane keto qe te japin force ne jete per te kapercyer te gjithe veshtiresite.
nuk mund te gjykoj sjelljen e nje njeriu tjeter ne jete.
por eshte nje veprim ekstrem dhe meskin te hedhesh gjene me te bukur qe ke.
me respekt

[Psikostudenti]

Ok, tegjithe njerezit mund te bejne vetevrasje. Ndokush mund te thote se kjo nuk mund te me ndodhe mua, por le ta din se nuk eshte ashtu. Por rruga per te ardhe deri te vetevrasja eshte vertete rruge e trishtuar dhe shpesh e pafrenueshem. Mandej secili qe eshte ne kete rruge, e sheh vetevrasjen si alternative te fundit te mundshme.
Por si vjen njeriu deri te vetevrasjaa?
Problemet e shpeshta te cilat ballafaqohet njeriu shpesh e vene ate ne gjendje frustrative, keshtu ai ndien barre te rende psikike dhe fillon ballafaqimi me konfliktet e brendshme. Kur keto konflikte nuk mund te zgjidhen dhe njeriu serish ballafaqohet meprobleme dhe konflikte tjera (te qfaredo natyre qofshin por qe e vene ne trysni individin)te reja, atehere ai vjen deri te depresioni qe eshte edhe faktori i pare per ta shtyre njeriun ne depresion. Keto konflikte dhe probleme njeriu shpesh nuk ia komunikon askujt (ndoshta per aresye turpi apo edhe tjera) dhe ato shkojne dhe behen nje lemsh ne brendesin e tij me çrast njeriu e ndien veten pisk. Gjate kesaj gjendje njeriu ballafaqohet edhe me tej edhe me probleme tjera (familjare e shoqerore), ku ndoshta njeriu edhe e ndien vehten te tepret ne ate mjedis. Mjafton te mendohet per vetevrasje dhe njeriu te jete ne nje gjendje te tille.............

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Psikostudenti, me vjen keq... materialet qe solle ishin te mira por gjuha e vetme e lejuar ne F.Sh. eshte shqipja. Je i inkurajuar te postosh sa me shume gjera te tilla nese i perkthen.

Faleminderit per mirekuptimin, angeldust.

[kolombi]

Postuar më parë nga MI CORAZON
Me poshte nje liste te njerezve te shquar qe kane kryer vetevrasje:

Johnny Ace, singer
Nick Adams, actor
Neil Aggett, South African worker's union leader
Louis Althusser, French philosopher
Jean Améry, Austrian writer
Fridolin Anderwert, Swiss Federal Councilor
Roger Nicholas Angleton, imprisoned Texas extortionist who admitted in his suicide note killing his sister-in-law, socialite Doris Angleton.
Mary Bacon, thoroughbred race horse jockey
Albert Ballen
Isobel Barnett, British TV personality
Gertrude Bell, archaeologist, writer, spy and administrator known as the "Uncrowned Queen of Iraq"
Alain Berdarin, founder/owner of "Le Crazy Horse Saloon" - Paris
Pierre Bérégovoy, French politician, killed himself in 1993 after serving a year as prime minister.
Ricky Berry, American NBA Basketball player (Sacramento Kings)
Bruno Bettelheim, child psychologist
Ludwig Boltzmann, Austrian physicist
Ernest Bornemann, German sexologist
Francesco Borromini, architect
***** Boye, Swedish author
Charles Boyer, French actor
Herman Brood, Dutch musician and painter
Eustace Budgel, remembered because his death was discussed in a conversation between Samuel Johnson and his friend and biographer Boswell
Capucine, French actress
Dora Carrington, artist
Robert Stewart, Viscount Castlereagh, British politician
Paul Celan, Romanian poet
Valerie Chacon, wife of Bobby Chacon
Thomas Chatterton, English poet
Leslie Cheung, Hong Kong movie star and singer
Chung Mong-hun, Korean businessman, chairman of Hyundai Asan
Kurt Donald Cobain, American musician and singer (Nirvana)
Billy Collins Jr., young boxer
Ray Combs, former host of popular American game show Family Feud
Ian Curtis, English singer and songwritter (Joy Division)
Dalida, French singer
Gilles Deleuze, French philosopher
Peter Deuel, American actor
George Eastman, inventor
Brian Samuel Epstein, British manager of the The Beatles
Patrick William Feeney, American college basketball player
John Gould Fletcher, Pulitzer Prize winning poet
Romain Gary, Russian - French novelist, film director and diplomat
Charlotte Perkins Gilman, American feminist and author (Herland)
Joseph Goebbels, German Nazi leader
Hermann Göring, German Nazi leader
Richard Greene, boxing referee
Mitch Halpern, boxing referee
Pete Ham, rock musician (Badfinger)
Tony Hancock British comedian.
Hannibal, military commander
Donny Hathaway, singer, best known for his duets with Roberta Flack
Felix Hausdorff, mathematician. He committed suicide with his wife and sister-in-law in the concentration camp.
Ernest Hemingway, American novelist
Margaux Hemingway, American actress and model
Adolf Hitler, Austrian/German Nazi leader
Michael Hutchence Australian lead singer of rock group INXS
Phyllis Hyman Singer
Judas Iscariot, according to the Bible, betrayed Jesus
Jim Jones, reverend, leader of the "People's Temple" cult. Died during mass suicide that cost the lives of more than 500 in Guyana.
Sarah Kane, British playwright
Terry Kath, guitarist, Chicago (died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound)
Brian Keith, American actor (Family Affair)
Dr. David Kelly, British scientist and source of BBC story about the Dodgy Dossier
Heinrich von Kleist, German dramatist and poet
Arthur Koestler, Hungarian novelist, political activist and social philosopher
Hannelore Kohl, wife of ex-chancellor of Germany Helmut Kohl
Jerzy Kosinski, Polish-American author
Paul Lafargue, son-in-law of Karl Marx, communist theorist and author of The Right to Be Lazy
Hans Langsdorff, captain of the Admiral Graf Spee
Hector Lavoe, Salsa Music singer
Florence Lawrence, Hollywood's first movie Star
Primo Levi, Italian author
John Lovelock, New Zealand doctor and Olympic athlete
Malcolm Lowry, British writer
Gherashim Luca, Romanian surrealist
Aleksandr Mikhailovich Lyapunov, Russian mathematician, mechanician and physicist
Billy MacKenzie Lead singer of 1980s pop group The Associates
Niklaus Meienberg, Swiss author
Kitty Melrose, English actress
Charlotte Mew, English poet
Kid McCoy, world champion boxer (real name: Norman Shelby. Suicide note read, among other things: Everything in my possession, I want to go to my dear wife, Sue E. Shelby.....To all my dear friends...best of luck...sorry I could not endure this world's madness.)
Donnie Moore, relief pitcher for the California Angels, gave up a last inning home-run preventing the Angels from going to the World Series in 1986.
Ted Moult, British television personality
Gerard de Nerval, French writer
Luis Ocaña, Spanish cyclist, Tour de France winner
Phil Ochs, American singer
Judge O'Connor, actor
Dazai Osamu, Japanese novelist
Billy Papke, world champion boxer
Jules Pascin, French-American painter, "Prince of Montparnasse"
Sylvia Plath, American poetess, author and essayist
Dana Michelle Plato, American actress
Freddie Prinze, Puerto Rican comedian and actor
George Reeves, actor, played Superman on television
Carlos Roberto Reina, former president of Honduras
Iris von Roten-Meyer, (1917-1990), artist and jurist
Irv Rubin, leader of the Jewish Defense League
Mark Rothko, Russian-American painter
Crown Prince Rudolf of Austria (see Mayerling)
Akutagawa Ryunosuke, Japanese novelist
George Sanders, actor. His suicide note read: "Dear World: I am leaving because I am bored. I am leaving you with your worries in this sweet cesspool."
Alberto Santos-Dumont, pilot
Jean Seberg, American actress
Anne Sexton, American poet
Del Shannon, American singer
Elizabeth Siddal, Pre-Raphaelite icon
The Singing Nun, Belgian singer
Rory Storm, singer of the Hurricanes (the band Ringo Starr was in before he joined the Beatles), in a pact with his mother
David Strickland, Actor
Wolfe Tone, Irish independence leader
John Kennedy Toole, American novelist
Marina Ivanovna Tsvetaeva, Russian poetess and writer
Kurt Tucholsky, German journalist and satirist
Alan Turing, British mathematician and computer scientist
Randy Turpin, British world champion boxer
Vincent van Gogh, Dutch painter
Getulio Vargas, president of Brazil. Killed himself in 1954 during impeachment trial.
Lupe Velez, actress
Herve Villechaize, French actor
Otto Weininger, Austrian philosopher
James Whale, film director
Paul Williams, singer (Temptations)
Virginia Woolf, British novelist
Mahmoud Zuabi, Syrian prime minister shot himself on May 21, 2000, two months after resigning over corruption charges.
Stefan and Lotte Zweig, Austrian novelist and his wife

Monarchs
Shang Zhou, the last king of the Shang Dynasty of China
Boudicca, Celtic chieftainess
Decebal, Dacian king
Cleopatra VII of Egypt
Chongzhen, the last emperor of the Ming Dyansty of China
Nero, emperor of Rome (under duress)

By Harakiri
Oda Nobunaga
the Soga
Akou-Roushi (47 ronins)
Saigo Takamori, Japanese politician
Hashimoto Sanaii
Yoshida Shouin
Kusaka Gennai
Takechi Hanpeita
Kimitake Hiraoka better known as Yukio Mishima

Others
Sarah Marple-Cantrell 12 year old girl who became famous after commiting suicide.

Dy here me te shquar u bene kur kryen vetvrasjen.

[Klevis2000]

o kolomb mo i humb piket kot tani edhe kujdes se po i motivon njerzit te behen te famshem


Pse kohet e fundit eshte rritur nr i vetevrasjeve ne shqiperi